Robert De Niro has seven kids: How does he do it?

He has an old-school parenting style
A look at his family
His first marriage and two children
Toukie Smith and twins
Grace Hightower and another son
Giving it another go, and having a daughter
A complicated separation
Dad and grandpa at the same time
Kim Cattrall gives his partner away
Tiffany Chen: Martial arts royalty
What his kids are up to: Raphael De Niro
Drena DeNiro
Aaron and Julian DeNiro
Elliott DeNiro
The youngest of the family, until recently...
"Seven, actually"

"I just had a baby," the-then 79-year-old Hollywood actor casually revealed in 2023 while promoting his new movie 'About My Father.' With this new birth, De Niro became a father for the seventh time. The surprise revelation came during an interview with ET Canada, when the interviewer was asking him about his thoughts on fatherhood, given he's had six children. But De Niro quickly corrected the journalist, saying: "Seven, actually. I just had a baby."

He has an old-school parenting style

Talking to ET Canada, he also shared his parenting style. "I mean, there's no way around it with kids. I don't like to have to lay down the law and stuff like that. But, [sometimes] you have no choice," he continued. "And any parent, I think, would say the same thing. You always want to do the right thing by the children and give them the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes you can't."

"Reach for the stars:" His advice to his children

In 2020, he told People Magazine that the best parenting advice he has is to tell kids to reach for the stars. "Just don’t sell yourself short.’ That’s the most I would say — push yourself a little more and reach for what you really think it is you want to do. Don’t be afraid,... It’s important for them to find their own lane.”

A look at his family

Although his parenting advice is straighforward, his family is quite complex. His baby girl, Gia Virginia Chen-De Niro, was born April. The age difference between his eldest daughter Drena and his newest babe is 51 years. Let's dive in and see what they're up to!

His first marriage and two children

Robert De Niro married actress Diahnne Abbott in 1976. Together, they had Raphael De Niro, now in his mid-40s. But De Niro also decided to adopt the actress's daughter, Drena, now in her early 50s, who Abbott had in a previous marriage. De Niro and Abbott divorced in 1988.

Toukie Smith and twins

Later, the 'Godfather' actor began a relationship with the model Toukie Smith. The couple had twin sons, Julian and Aaron, who were conceived by IVF and delivered by a surrogate mother in 1995. But the couple split the following year.

Grace Hightower and another son

Soon after, in 1997, Robert De Niro married actress Grace Hightower. Their son Elliot was born in 1998 and then the couple broke up in 1999. However, their love story didn't exactly end here...

Giving it another go, and having a daughter

In 2003, a year after De Niro was diagnosed with prostate cancer, he officially got back together with his ex Hightower. They had never been officially divorced, so they renewed their vows. In Dec. 2011, their daughter Helen was born via surrogate.

A complicated separation

Four years after the vow renewal and after 20 years of marriage, the couple decided it really wasn't meant to be. The divorce was messy with a lot of wrangling over money.

Dad and grandpa at the same time

De Niro's newest babe is the daughter of his rumored partner Tiffany Chen. This birth also makes him a father and a grandfather at the same time.

Kim Cattrall gives his partner away

Robert De Niro's co-star in the aptly named film 'About My Father' expressed her excitement over De Niro's newborn baby. "God bless him. His significant other, Tiffany, is such a beautiful woman... She was gorgeous and sweet, and I'm happy for both of them," she gushed to Extra.

Tiffany Chen: Martial arts royalty

Tiffany Chen is a professional martial artist and tai chi instructor. The gentle meditative activity just so happens to be a great form of exercise for the elderly. She is the daughter of tai chi Grandmaster William C.C. Chen. She and De Niro both worked on the 2015 film 'The Intern.'

Image: Tai Chi Basics AcaciaFitness / YouTube

What his kids are up to: Raphael De Niro

The actor's eldest biological son Raphael did not decide to follow in his father's footsteps. Although he participated in projects like 'Raging Bull' when he was young, he decided to get into the real estate business instead. He reportedly has three children.

Drena DeNiro

The actor's adoptive daughter embarked on a career as a model, fashion consultant and even a DJ. She finally opted for acting and appeared in films like 'A Star is Born,' 'Furlough' and 'Hands of Stone.' She has one son named Leo.

Aaron and Julian DeNiro

His twins decided to go their separate ways. Julian (pictured) opted for a career in acting, starring in projects including 'Dubious Battle' alongside Selena Gomez and 'First Lady.' On the other hand, Aaron decided to stay out of the limelight.

Elliott DeNiro

De Niro revealed years ago that his son Elliot had been diagnosed with autism. However, Elliot has loved tennis since a young age and was featured in ESPN's 'Special Olympics: 50 Game Changers' series.

The youngest of the family, until recently...

His daughter Helen, born in 2011, is still enjoying her childhood and hasn't been overwhelmed with the big decision of whether to follow in her father's footsteps... yet.